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N:dlzc D:aol T:com (dlzc) wrote:
Dear Double-A: "Double-A" wrote in message m... (Jim Greenfield) wrote in message .com... "Ben Bean" wrote in message ... "Maleki" wrote in message ... Did Einstein have ADD? I thought a few of you Einstein freaks should know something about this. Y'mean "Attention Deficit Disorder"? How would one know? Relativity came about through science questioning that which was previously unchallenged. Do you really think there is a malady, ADD, and never question that?? There's a reason why the word "physician" and the word "physical" have the same first six letters, m'man. Another term for physician is: HEALER. What is healed by going around accusing your brethren of " having disorders", pray tell? I thought it was the COPS' job to keep "order". I thought it was the legislature's job to define "disorder" ie. transgression. And I thought it was the COURTS' job to prudently probe into the actual veracity of any such allegations against any citizen, and a JURY's job to sustain or acquit on such charges. Nothing can be gained and nothing bettered by analyzing people to death, with heedless charlatanism and made-up maladies that cannot be objectively assigned, much less treated. Psych is an old old ruse, the second-oldest profession I'd bet. Belittling your fellow man, now that's real friendly! If you want enlightenment, don't go around parroting shrinks, but instead *question* authority; for A.D.D. is nothing more than a passing fad in the ages-old name-calling spite game. Mental illness is forever: fixate on THAT my friend! Psych is just an end-run around the Constitution (of nations that are democracies) and a vile system of blacklisting (which is also illegal here in the U.S. and elsewhere). See also antipsychiatry.org on the Web (no affiliation w/poster). -BB A kid in our street is "diagnosed" as having ADD. He is impossible at school and home, throwing temper tantrums, breaking things etc. Passing strange though! He came to our house, wanting to play with my daugter (6). I quietly took him out the back, pinched his ear HARD, and told him he was quite welcome, so long as he NEVER tried that crap at our house. Guess what? He was NEVER a problem with us (gave him a little reminder occassionally), and came regularly to visit- he was a different kid! Moral: ADD in most cases is politically correct psycho-babble which can be corrected by explaining to the "sufferer" that he/she has been seen to be nothing but naughty, nasty, self-indulgent brat, and discipline FIRMLY APPLIED. Jim G c'=c+v Don't you just love all these fad syndromes? I guess the drug companies love them too because it gives people a legitimate sounding reason to pop lots of their pills (besides for just getting high, that is). Too bad kids are caught up in this drug company culture. Look at it from another view. For teachers, requiring the parents to "discipline" their child (whether with the "rod" or drugs), is a godsend. Because the "lawyers" will let a teacher neither hug nor punish... David A. Smith Look at it from the POV of someone who worked as a professional therapist in a team of medical and social service professionals doing extensive, inpatient diagnosis of adolescents with problems. Sometimes we did find that the teens had been wrongly diagnosed as being ADD or ADHD. More often, we discovered kids that had _not_ been so diagnosed, and in fact did have ADD or ADHD. Most of the time, medication made an immediate and dramatic change in their behavior, and in their ability to focus on the boring stuff most of us can focus on easily. Medication alone is never the whole answer; and in many cases, it isn't the answer at all. But to think that 'ADD in most cases is politically correct psycho-babble which can be corrected by explaining to the 'sufferer that he/she has been see to be nothing but naughty, nasty, self-indulgent brat....' is idiotic. It is precisely the same as saying about diabetics: 'If they would only be more disciplined and nice, they wouldn't need that insulin.' I agree that the diagnosis of ADD/ADHD is too frequently an abdication of responsibility by adults in charge of children. But to go to the opposite extreme is far more harmful, and is far more likely to produce sociopaths than it is to produce upstanding citizens. But hey, if you want to push for the re-introduction of child abuse in schools, go for it. You'll find a lot of supporters; and you will make yourselves known so that honest folks in your community can avoid you. -- Tom McDonald |
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Dear Tom McDonald:
"Tom McDonald" wrote in message ... N:dlzc D:aol T:com (dlzc) wrote: Dear Double-A: "Double-A" wrote in message m... (Jim Greenfield) wrote in message e.com... "Ben Bean" wrote in message ... "Maleki" wrote in message ... Did Einstein have ADD? I thought a few of you Einstein freaks should know something about this. Y'mean "Attention Deficit Disorder"? How would one know? Relativity came about through science questioning that which was previously unchallenged. Do you really think there is a malady, ADD, and never question that?? There's a reason why the word "physician" and the word "physical" have the same first six letters, m'man. Another term for physician is: HEALER. What is healed by going around accusing your brethren of " having disorders", pray tell? I thought it was the COPS' job to keep "order". I thought it was the legislature's job to define "disorder" ie. transgression. And I thought it was the COURTS' job to prudently probe into the actual veracity of any such allegations against any citizen, and a JURY's job to sustain or acquit on such charges. Nothing can be gained and nothing bettered by analyzing people to death, with heedless charlatanism and made-up maladies that cannot be objectively assigned, much less treated. Psych is an old old ruse, the second-oldest profession I'd bet. Belittling your fellow man, now that's real friendly! If you want enlightenment, don't go around parroting shrinks, but instead *question* authority; for A.D.D. is nothing more than a passing fad in the ages-old name-calling spite game. Mental illness is forever: fixate on THAT my friend! Psych is just an end-run around the Constitution (of nations that are democracies) and a vile system of blacklisting (which is also illegal here in the U.S. and elsewhere). See also antipsychiatry.org on the Web (no affiliation w/poster). -BB A kid in our street is "diagnosed" as having ADD. He is impossible at school and home, throwing temper tantrums, breaking things etc. Passing strange though! He came to our house, wanting to play with my daugter (6). I quietly took him out the back, pinched his ear HARD, and told him he was quite welcome, so long as he NEVER tried that crap at our house. Guess what? He was NEVER a problem with us (gave him a little reminder occassionally), and came regularly to visit- he was a different kid! Moral: ADD in most cases is politically correct psycho-babble which can be corrected by explaining to the "sufferer" that he/she has been seen to be nothing but naughty, nasty, self-indulgent brat, and discipline FIRMLY APPLIED. Jim G c'=c+v Don't you just love all these fad syndromes? I guess the drug companies love them too because it gives people a legitimate sounding reason to pop lots of their pills (besides for just getting high, that is). Too bad kids are caught up in this drug company culture. Look at it from another view. For teachers, requiring the parents to "discipline" their child (whether with the "rod" or drugs), is a godsend. Because the "lawyers" will let a teacher neither hug nor punish... David A. Smith Look at it from the POV of someone who worked as a professional therapist in a team of medical and social service professionals doing extensive, inpatient diagnosis of adolescents with problems. Sometimes we did find that the teens had been wrongly diagnosed as being ADD or ADHD. More often, we discovered kids that had _not_ been so diagnosed, and in fact did have ADD or ADHD. Most of the time, medication made an immediate and dramatic change in their behavior, and in their ability to focus on the boring stuff most of us can focus on easily. Medication alone is never the whole answer; and in many cases, it isn't the answer at all. But to think that 'ADD in most cases is politically correct psycho-babble which can be corrected by explaining to the 'sufferer that he/she has been see to be nothing but naughty, nasty, self-indulgent brat....' is idiotic. It is precisely the same as saying about diabetics: 'If they would only be more disciplined and nice, they wouldn't need that insulin.' Actually, digitalis - epilepsy would be a better simile than insulin - diabetes. I agree that the diagnosis of ADD/ADHD is too frequently an abdication of responsibility by adults in charge of children. But to go to the opposite extreme is far more harmful, and is far more likely to produce sociopaths than it is to produce upstanding citizens. But hey, if you want to push for the re-introduction of child abuse in schools, go for it. You'll find a lot of supporters; and you will make yourselves known so that honest folks in your community can avoid you. You were doing great up until this last paragraph. Nature only serves lessons one way. Enculturation in many tribes/bands can involve pain/disfigurement/death. But more to the point "you reap what you sow". Teaching by corporal punishment only makes corporal punishment part of everyday life. We can, and often, do better using the minds that we were given. No one is pushing for "child abuse in the schools". Consider though, that your child is being taught by people that have larger and larger classes, and have to try and communicate across the "ADD" or "ADHD" noise in the classroom. The entire classroom suffers if *someone* doesn't control this bandwidth. If you don't want the teacher dispensing drugs (essentially), then it is up to the parents to provide an "instructable" child. David A. Smith |
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"N:dlzc D:aol T:com \(dlzc\)" N: dlzc1 D:cox wrote in message news:i6j%c.102868$4o.61466@fed1read01...
Dear Tom McDonald: "Tom McDonald" wrote in message ... N:dlzc D:aol T:com (dlzc) wrote: Dear Double-A: "Double-A" wrote in message m... (Jim Greenfield) wrote in message e.com... "Ben Bean" wrote in message ... "Maleki" wrote in message ... Did Einstein have ADD? I thought a few of you Einstein freaks should know something about this. Y'mean "Attention Deficit Disorder"? How would one know? Relativity came about through science questioning that which was previously unchallenged. Do you really think there is a malady, ADD, and never question that?? There's a reason why the word "physician" and the word "physical" have the same first six letters, m'man. Another term for physician is: HEALER. What is healed by going around accusing your brethren of " having disorders", pray tell? I thought it was the COPS' job to keep "order". I thought it was the legislature's job to define "disorder" ie. transgression. And I thought it was the COURTS' job to prudently probe into the actual veracity of any such allegations against any citizen, and a JURY's job to sustain or acquit on such charges. Nothing can be gained and nothing bettered by analyzing people to death, with heedless charlatanism and made-up maladies that cannot be objectively assigned, much less treated. Psych is an old old ruse, the second-oldest profession I'd bet. Belittling your fellow man, now that's real friendly! If you want enlightenment, don't go around parroting shrinks, but instead *question* authority; for A.D.D. is nothing more than a passing fad in the ages-old name-calling spite game. Mental illness is forever: fixate on THAT my friend! Psych is just an end-run around the Constitution (of nations that are democracies) and a vile system of blacklisting (which is also illegal here in the U.S. and elsewhere). See also antipsychiatry.org on the Web (no affiliation w/poster). -BB A kid in our street is "diagnosed" as having ADD. He is impossible at school and home, throwing temper tantrums, breaking things etc. Passing strange though! He came to our house, wanting to play with my daugter (6). I quietly took him out the back, pinched his ear HARD, and told him he was quite welcome, so long as he NEVER tried that crap at our house. Guess what? He was NEVER a problem with us (gave him a little reminder occassionally), and came regularly to visit- he was a different kid! Moral: ADD in most cases is politically correct psycho-babble which can be corrected by explaining to the "sufferer" that he/she has been seen to be nothing but naughty, nasty, self-indulgent brat, and discipline FIRMLY APPLIED. Jim G c'=c+v Don't you just love all these fad syndromes? I guess the drug companies love them too because it gives people a legitimate sounding reason to pop lots of their pills (besides for just getting high, that is). Too bad kids are caught up in this drug company culture. Look at it from another view. For teachers, requiring the parents to "discipline" their child (whether with the "rod" or drugs), is a godsend. Because the "lawyers" will let a teacher neither hug nor punish... David A. Smith Look at it from the POV of someone who worked as a professional therapist in a team of medical and social service professionals doing extensive, inpatient diagnosis of adolescents with problems. Sometimes we did find that the teens had been wrongly diagnosed as being ADD or ADHD. More often, we discovered kids that had _not_ been so diagnosed, and in fact did have ADD or ADHD. Most of the time, medication made an immediate and dramatic change in their behavior, and in their ability to focus on the boring stuff most of us can focus on easily. Medication alone is never the whole answer; and in many cases, it isn't the answer at all. But to think that 'ADD in most cases is politically correct psycho-babble which can be corrected by explaining to the 'sufferer that he/she has been see to be nothing but naughty, nasty, self-indulgent brat....' is idiotic. It is precisely the same as saying about diabetics: 'If they would only be more disciplined and nice, they wouldn't need that insulin.' Actually, digitalis - epilepsy would be a better simile than insulin - diabetes. I agree that the diagnosis of ADD/ADHD is too frequently an abdication of responsibility by adults in charge of children. But to go to the opposite extreme is far more harmful, and is far more likely to produce sociopaths than it is to produce upstanding citizens. But hey, if you want to push for the re-introduction of child abuse in schools, go for it. You'll find a lot of supporters; and you will make yourselves known so that honest folks in your community can avoid you. You were doing great up until this last paragraph. Nature only serves lessons one way. Enculturation in many tribes/bands can involve pain/disfigurement/death. But more to the point "you reap what you sow". Teaching by corporal punishment only makes corporal punishment part of everyday life. We can, and often, do better using the minds that we were given. No one is pushing for "child abuse in the schools". Consider though, that your child is being taught by people that have larger and larger classes, and have to try and communicate across the "ADD" or "ADHD" noise in the classroom. The entire classroom suffers if *someone* doesn't control this bandwidth. If you don't want the teacher dispensing drugs (essentially), then it is up to the parents to provide an "instructable" child. David A. Smith If ADD is a mental deficiency akin to epilepsy, what is Tom MacDonald suffering from, that he would prefer 29 kids to be abused in class by not being able to progress and enjoy their schooling, so that ONE can self-indulgently run amok, because he has no fear of reprisal! Has he ever heard of the concept "for the betterment of the MAJORITY"? Who is getting abused?- certainly not the cretin who's (often single) parent is picking up a fatter social security cheque because "poor Tommy has ADD". And those parents aren't the only ones benefitting financially. How many psychiatrists and other "health professionals" earn very large salaries, through increasing their number of ADD "clients"? There were about 800 at my highschool in 1960s- not ONE with ADD!!!!!!!!! Parental cop-outing wasn't acceptable, and neither was blatant flaunting of discipline. Of course some kids will throw a tantrum if they know it will get the result they (think) want- crime does pay when it is so easy. But let's see how many repeatedly try it, when they KNOW that significant discipline is bound to follow. Oh, and the violent school yard bully? Almost without exception, a child who has never been subjected to reliable, firm discipline. Jim G c'=c+v |
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N:dlzc D:aol T:com (dlzc) wrote:
Dear Tom McDonald: snip Consider though, that your child is being taught by people that have larger and larger classes, and have to try and communicate across the "ADD" or "ADHD" noise in the classroom. The entire classroom suffers if *someone* doesn't control this bandwidth. If you don't want the teacher dispensing drugs (essentially), then it is up to the parents to provide an "instructable" child. David A. Smith David, There is a third option. That is doing an IEP (Individual Educational Plan) for the child that pulls together parents, school, CESA, social services, and any other necessary services to meet the educational needs of the student while respecting the other students and teachers. This is not only a very good idea, it is the law, at least in Wisconsin. (I think it's generally true throughout the 50 states in the US.) I've been involved in several IEPs as a social worker and as a family therapist. They do take significant work, and do not always succeed. But they work well enough and often enough to be well worth the investment in the plan development, and in the services offered to the student, family and school. I am of the opinion that ADD/ADHD was not particularly a 'disorder' until the rise of industrial society, and especially with the coming of large schools with one age group per class. Blame Henry Ford. He wanted to raise good assembly line workers, and pushed school consolidation that ended the one room school's built in peer mentoring and control. I apologize to you for the 'child abuse' business. I was confusing your reply with that of Jim Greenfield. Jim gave the example of pinching a neighbor kid's ear as a means of dealing with the kid's ADD. -- Tom McDonald |
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Dear Tom McDonald:
"Tom McDonald" wrote in message ... N:dlzc D:aol T:com (dlzc) wrote: Dear Tom McDonald: snip Consider though, that your child is being taught by people that have larger and larger classes, and have to try and communicate across the "ADD" or "ADHD" noise in the classroom. The entire classroom suffers if *someone* doesn't control this bandwidth. If you don't want the teacher dispensing drugs (essentially), then it is up to the parents to provide an "instructable" child. David, There is a third option. That is doing an IEP (Individual Educational Plan) for the child that pulls together parents, school, CESA, social services, and any other necessary services to meet the educational needs of the student while respecting the other students and teachers. This is not only a very good idea, it is the law, at least in Wisconsin. (I think it's generally true throughout the 50 states in the US.) Same in Arridzona, but it is not the "law". A child is set up with an IEP if he has "issues". I've been involved in several IEPs as a social worker and as a family therapist. They do take significant work, and do not always succeed. But they work well enough and often enough to be well worth the investment in the plan development, and in the services offered to the student, family and school. It is a tool, like a hammer. Not all problems behave like nails. But you've got to have a place to start. I am of the opinion that ADD/ADHD was not particularly a 'disorder' until the rise of industrial society, and especially with the coming of large schools with one age group per class. Blame Henry Ford. He wanted to raise good assembly line workers, and pushed school consolidation that ended the one room school's built in peer mentoring and control. There are a lot of environmental allergies as well. The consolidations are the result of a "successful" and unculled population (not that I really want us to be periodically preened by Morlocks either). Not exactly Henry Ford's fault for this, or even for burning all my college money for two years keeping one of his products running. One of the good reasons for an active frontier... I apologize to you for the 'child abuse' business. I was confusing your reply with that of Jim Greenfield. Jim gave the example of pinching a neighbor kid's ear as a means of dealing with the kid's ADD. No issues. I felt that perhaps I had not been clear. If Greenfield had done this with my dog, he would have gone to jail, or at least been bleeding. The "fact" that his neighbor lets him get away with it with his child... says something about both of them. Yes, one can dampen one's expression from fear, but it is not very conducive to learning... except learning how to lie, and how to get back at them. Over and out. David A. Smith |
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Jim Greenfield wrote:
"N:dlzc D:aol T:com \(dlzc\)" N: dlzc1 D:cox wrote in message news:i6j%c.102868$4o.61466@fed1read01... Dear Tom McDonald: "Tom McDonald" wrote in message ... N:dlzc D:aol T:com (dlzc) wrote: Dear Double-A: "Double-A" wrote in message e.com... (Jim Greenfield) wrote in message gle.com... "Ben Bean" wrote in message ... "Maleki" wrote in message news:xtdbd0j2wop5.1277bg35hwga6$.dlg@40tude .net... Did Einstein have ADD? I thought a few of you Einstein freaks should know something about this. Y'mean "Attention Deficit Disorder"? How would one know? Relativity came about through science questioning that which was previously unchallenged. Do you really think there is a malady, ADD, and never question that?? There's a reason why the word "physician" and the word "physical" have the same first six letters, m'man. Another term for physician is: HEALER. What is healed by going around accusing your brethren of " having disorders", pray tell? I thought it was the COPS' job to keep "order". I thought it was the legislature's job to define "disorder" ie. transgression. And I thought it was the COURTS' job to prudently probe into the actual veracity of any such allegations against any citizen, and a JURY's job to sustain or acquit on such charges. Nothing can be gained and nothing bettered by analyzing people to death, with heedless charlatanism and made-up maladies that cannot be objectively assigned, much less treated. Psych is an old old ruse, the second-oldest profession I'd bet. Belittling your fellow man, now that's real friendly! If you want enlightenment, don't go around parroting shrinks, but instead *question* authority; for A.D.D. is nothing more than a passing fad in the ages-old name-calling spite game. Mental illness is forever: fixate on THAT my friend! Psych is just an end-run around the Constitution (of nations that are democracies) and a vile system of blacklisting (which is also illegal here in the U.S. and elsewhere). See also antipsychiatry.org on the Web (no affiliation w/poster). -BB A kid in our street is "diagnosed" as having ADD. He is impossible at school and home, throwing temper tantrums, breaking things etc. Passing strange though! He came to our house, wanting to play with my daugter (6). I quietly took him out the back, pinched his ear HARD, and told him he was quite welcome, so long as he NEVER tried that crap at our house. Guess what? He was NEVER a problem with us (gave him a little reminder occassionally), and came regularly to visit- he was a different kid! Moral: ADD in most cases is politically correct psycho-babble which can be corrected by explaining to the "sufferer" that he/she has been seen to be nothing but naughty, nasty, self-indulgent brat, and discipline FIRMLY APPLIED. Jim G c'=c+v Don't you just love all these fad syndromes? I guess the drug companies love them too because it gives people a legitimate sounding reason to pop lots of their pills (besides for just getting high, that is). Too bad kids are caught up in this drug company culture. Look at it from another view. For teachers, requiring the parents to "discipline" their child (whether with the "rod" or drugs), is a godsend. Because the "lawyers" will let a teacher neither hug nor punish... David A. Smith Look at it from the POV of someone who worked as a professional therapist in a team of medical and social service professionals doing extensive, inpatient diagnosis of adolescents with problems. Sometimes we did find that the teens had been wrongly diagnosed as being ADD or ADHD. More often, we discovered kids that had _not_ been so diagnosed, and in fact did have ADD or ADHD. Most of the time, medication made an immediate and dramatic change in their behavior, and in their ability to focus on the boring stuff most of us can focus on easily. Medication alone is never the whole answer; and in many cases, it isn't the answer at all. But to think that 'ADD in most cases is politically correct psycho-babble which can be corrected by explaining to the 'sufferer that he/she has been see to be nothing but naughty, nasty, self-indulgent brat....' is idiotic. It is precisely the same as saying about diabetics: 'If they would only be more disciplined and nice, they wouldn't need that insulin.' Actually, digitalis - epilepsy would be a better simile than insulin - diabetes. I agree that the diagnosis of ADD/ADHD is too frequently an abdication of responsibility by adults in charge of children. But to go to the opposite extreme is far more harmful, and is far more likely to produce sociopaths than it is to produce upstanding citizens. But hey, if you want to push for the re-introduction of child abuse in schools, go for it. You'll find a lot of supporters; and you will make yourselves known so that honest folks in your community can avoid you. You were doing great up until this last paragraph. Nature only serves lessons one way. Enculturation in many tribes/bands can involve pain/disfigurement/death. But more to the point "you reap what you sow". Teaching by corporal punishment only makes corporal punishment part of everyday life. We can, and often, do better using the minds that we were given. No one is pushing for "child abuse in the schools". Consider though, that your child is being taught by people that have larger and larger classes, and have to try and communicate across the "ADD" or "ADHD" noise in the classroom. The entire classroom suffers if *someone* doesn't control this bandwidth. If you don't want the teacher dispensing drugs (essentially), then it is up to the parents to provide an "instructable" child. David A. Smith If ADD is a mental deficiency akin to epilepsy, what is Tom MacDonald suffering from, that he would prefer 29 kids to be abused in class by not being able to progress and enjoy their schooling, so that ONE can self-indulgently run amok, because he has no fear of reprisal! Has he ever heard of the concept "for the betterment of the MAJORITY"? Who is getting abused?- certainly not the cretin who's (often single) parent is picking up a fatter social security cheque because "poor Tommy has ADD". And those parents aren't the only ones benefitting financially. How many psychiatrists and other "health professionals" earn very large salaries, through increasing their number of ADD "clients"? There were about 800 at my highschool in 1960s- not ONE with ADD!!!!!!!!! Parental cop-outing wasn't acceptable, and neither was blatant flaunting of discipline. Of course some kids will throw a tantrum if they know it will get the result they (think) want- crime does pay when it is so easy. But let's see how many repeatedly try it, when they KNOW that significant discipline is bound to follow. Oh, and the violent school yard bully? Almost without exception, a child who has never been subjected to reliable, firm discipline. Jim G c'=c+v Jim, I'm glad I apologized to the right person. You clearly haven't the foggiest idea of what ADD/ADHD are, or how they are appropriately treated. ADD isn't a mental deficiency the sense I think you mean it. In pre-industrial cultures, ADD/ADHD would have been advantages in certain circumstances. For instance, in the hunt, when intense concentration is required, and the situation is inherently exciting and interesting, the person with ADD would have the advantage over the non-ADD hunter. The hunter with ADD would be able to focus intensely on the hunt, on the stalking and the preparation for the kill. The non-ADD hunter would be less able to bring that intense focus to bear. In fact, a hunting team that included ADD hunters with very narrow and intense focus, and non-ADD hunters with wider situational awareness, would be an ideal team. It may be that you read the paragraph I just wrote and think I'm bonkers. "Folks with 'ADD' are all over the place; the problem is that they are rowdy and disruptive, not that they are good little students." If that is your view, then you have proven that you don't know what ADD/ADHD is, and what problems and benefits having it can bring. As for your earlier suggestion that ADD can be dealt with by the application of severe pressure to the ear of the uppity kid, I can only hope you try it in the presence of a mandated reporter of child abuse. Whatever your political views about the soft treatment of disruptive kids and the parental/educational/social services/psychiatric conspiracy to drag down America, I think you might be intrigued by the process of arrest and trial for child abuse. The school yard bully is almost without exception a kid who was subjected to reliable, firm discipline (in the parents' view), and who visited the same on weaker kids. Just like they learned at home. And just BTW, my last name is 'McDonald'. -- Tom McDonald |
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N:dlzc D:aol T:com (dlzc) wrote:
Dear Tom McDonald: "Tom McDonald" wrote in message ... N:dlzc D:aol T:com (dlzc) wrote: Dear Tom McDonald: snip Consider though, that your child is being taught by people that have larger and larger classes, and have to try and communicate across the "ADD" or "ADHD" noise in the classroom. The entire classroom suffers if *someone* doesn't control this bandwidth. If you don't want the teacher dispensing drugs (essentially), then it is up to the parents to provide an "instructable" child. David, There is a third option. That is doing an IEP (Individual Educational Plan) for the child that pulls together parents, school, CESA, social services, and any other necessary services to meet the educational needs of the student while respecting the other students and teachers. This is not only a very good idea, it is the law, at least in Wisconsin. (I think it's generally true throughout the 50 states in the US.) Same in Arridzona, but it is not the "law". A child is set up with an IEP if he has "issues". David, In Wisconsin and Minnesota, at least, school districts are required to provide necessary services for 'issues' that interfere with a child's ability to learn. While this does not mean that the school is required to pay for all of the necessary services (e.g. family counseling, medical treatment, etc.), it does mean that the school is the focal point for the development of the IEP process, and does have to provide their part of the needed services. Schools tend to dislike this, and are often loathe to tell parents about it, but there it is. I thought that it was a federal thing, but I could be wrong. I've been involved in several IEPs as a social worker and as a family therapist. They do take significant work, and do not always succeed. But they work well enough and often enough to be well worth the investment in the plan development, and in the services offered to the student, family and school. It is a tool, like a hammer. Not all problems behave like nails. But you've got to have a place to start. Correctly applied, an IEP is the gateway to a whole shop full of tools. However I have seen joinery problems addressed with a jackhammer. :-) snip I apologize to you for the 'child abuse' business. I was confusing your reply with that of Jim Greenfield. Jim gave the example of pinching a neighbor kid's ear as a means of dealing with the kid's ADD. No issues. I felt that perhaps I had not been clear. If Greenfield had done this with my dog, he would have gone to jail, or at least been bleeding. The "fact" that his neighbor lets him get away with it with his child... says something about both of them. Yes, one can dampen one's expression from fear, but it is not very conducive to learning... except learning how to lie, and how to get back at them. Precisely. It may have let Jim feel in charge for a while, but it didn't do what he thought it did. -- Tom McDonald |
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Jim Greenfield:
If ADD is a mental deficiency akin to epilepsy, what is Tom MacDonald suffering from, that he would prefer 29 kids to be abused in class by not being able to progress and enjoy their schooling, so that ONE can self-indulgently run amok, because he has no fear of reprisal! Has he ever heard of the concept "for the betterment of the MAJORITY"? Who is getting abused?- certainly not the cretin who's (often single) parent is picking up a fatter social security cheque because "poor Tommy has ADD". Of course. Being a cloned sheep yourself, you naturally seek to reward sheeplike behaviour. You can't conceptualize what it's like to be forced to operate below your mental capacity and conform to clone-like behaviour because you find keeping up with the sheep an interseting challenge, day in and day out. [...] Oh, and the violent school yard bully? Almost without exception, a child who has never been subjected to reliable, firm discipline. You fail to differentiate between people who are assholes and intentionally put themselves in a position to be a pain in the ass, such as yourself, and people who are a pain in the ass because they don't want to be where they are forced to be. You could choose not to post on this newsgroup, for example, and find others with a similar low level of mental functionality to associate with. Someone with add doesn't get to leave a classroom full of people like you. |
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